It has been a while since I have written on here, time has a way of flying by before I noticed. Time to slow down and 'smell the roses', so time just doesn't keep flying by.
Thank you to the people who were looking for me! Those words meant a lot more to me than you will ever know, I appreciate that tremendously.
One thing I am very pleased with is after almost 16 months on program, I have not strayed once. Did you hear that - NOT ONCE! Now if anyone knows me at all, you would realize that this is a major miracle!
I don't mess with the program at all! Like I once wrote in one of my blog posts: "If It Ain't Broke Don't Fix It" (June 28, 2012).
We are going on a 'honeymoon' in March. We like to do that once a year if we can and have done this for 4 or 5 years now. We go with other couples to places that are relaxing and tropical. It has been almost 2 years since we were able to do this. We couldn't go last year due to one of the couples' son was getting married during when we like to go, and we had a grandchild due.
So, 2 years ago, while planning the trip I was panicking! I had to go shopping because NOTHING fit! Everything was too small. It was horrid, humiliating and depressing!!! I couldn't find any skirts I could fit into, and horrors of all horrors, had to sew 2 of the same skirts together to make one that fit!! My dear friend was the only one who knew about that as she gave me one of the skirts. (I am sure my dear husband knew because of course the colors weren't exactly the same and it was quite obvious to me, but he never said a word)
My friend was having trouble finding stuff to wear too, but no where near as bad as I was!!!! It was 7 months after that last trip that I had my first appointment with Julie.
So now we are leaving in a few weeks. And guess what? I have to go shopping before we go! YUP, nothing fits me again, it is all TOO BIG!!!! I can't even imagine this! This is a dream come true for me! My husband has no problem with me buying clothes now! ( I am so thankful for Savers, great prices for on the weigh down!) I need a new bathing suit. Gulp! Still don't like wearing bathing suits, but guess what, I don't dread it this time. I think I am going to look for some exercise shorts that come down mid thigh and will hold me in, but not strangle me, and get a longer bathing suit top. This is so funny! I am actually looking forward to bathing suit shopping!
I have a couple summer skirts I can take in and use for the trip and I will have to get some tops, and a new bra! My new ones from a few months ago are to big already!
Got to get suntan lotion, and won't need as much because there isn't as much to cover!!!
And remember I told you about that skirt I had to make out of 2 skirts to go on my last trip? Well I burned it!
I may be loosing very slowly, maybe slower than others, I don't know. But at this point it doesn't matter, you see, I got to burn that stinking double skirt so who cares?
Woohoo Linda - welcome back to the land of living! So glad to hear you're feeling better. Thanks you're sharing your journey with us.
ReplyDeleteI wrote the song "I'm a Slow Loser" eons ago and I welcome new members in the choir! Ha!
Thanks Theresa!!! I am definately a permanent member in the "I'm a Slow Loser" choir!!! LOVE IT!!!!
DeleteJust think of the celebrating we will do when we do hit those sizes we are aiming for!!!!!!
Glad I checked the blog because I get to go to bed with a smile on my face.....You and your double skirt are just but a distant memory now....Wear that suntan lotion proudly! Thanks for the uplifting message to go to bed on....
ReplyDeleteThanks Jennifer!!! Glad I could bring a smile to your face!!!!
DeleteWoohoo is right! Great job! I keep getting inspired from people like you, Linda. Thanks for this wonderful write up. I have until December to drop some more weight before my trip back to the old Country (Germany) where I want to dazzle my family with my (hopefully by then) slim figure. It's a great journey and I am glad we are doing it together. Don't fret about the bathing suit. I bet you look great in it. Your husband sounds like a gem. I bet he is proud of you. Have a blast on your honeymoon. I bet you're styling in all your new clothes! We are on our way ladies!!!
ReplyDeleteThank you Trudy!!! We WILL get there! It does work!! and I agree, it is a wonderful journey!!!
DeleteI am so thankful for this blog, the support on it is priceless and I am thankful for people like you who read my nonsense!!!
You should become a contributor!!!! I would love to hear your story and your victories and struggles!!!! You just write from your heart!!!!
December is a ways away, just think of the difference there will be in your shape by then!!!!! and if I am not at my goal size, I won't be discouraged as I am realizing it is a journey, an adventure and when I get there, I get there. I feel the longer it takes, the more it is pressed into my mind, this new lifestyle!!!!
Germany!! How nice!!! My dream is to go to Italy and meet relatives I have found online!!!
Linda, I so enjoy reading your blogs and I do not find them to be nonsense at all, but rather informative and encouraging. I know for a fact that this blog site and the Facebook support helps me tremendously and I am excited to see the end results. I plan on being a ‘lifer’. We all know how difficult weight loss is, especially when we get older. With Julie’s plan it’s so doable. I feel the same way as you do about not being discouraged if I am not at my goal size (by December for instance), but I will enjoy this journey and be kind to myself.
ReplyDeleteI hope you go to Italy to meet your relatives. How exciting you found them online. I just found 2 class mates of mine last week on Facebook.
About becoming a contributor… I am actually working with Theresa on this issue. I haven’t quiet figured it out yet, but I am trying. I do just write things as they pop in my head and I know my grammar isn’t great, but that doesn’t mean anything in the scheme of things. We just have to help each other with our ups and downs and share some great info along the way.
Trudy I am so excited you are going to be a contributor!!!
DeleteI just write off the top of my head, sometimes I will work on a post, but most of them are pretty spur of the moment!
Like todays post I did!! check out my non scale victory! LOL
Write from your heart. We can all relate to anything you have to say!!
This blog has been a MAJOR support to me!!!! I would LOVE to read posts from more people as we all have our own stories and experiences that help someone somewhere!!!
Can't wait to read your first post!!
Feel free to contact me if I can help in anyway!!
Hello Linda. Thanks for your vote of confidence. That’s so nice of you. I am not a contributor yet. I am missing something, but not sure how to go by. I will contact Theresa to help me get set up. Also, there are times when I am not able to commit a lot of time to write, etc., because of my schedule at work, which will start soon. But, like you, I get so much out of these blogs. It keeps me honest and there is a kind of kinship with all the members. I am definitely looking forward to see more blogs from you, Theresa, and all the other good folks. I am planning on reading your latest post about the ‘scale victory’ during my lunch hour. Looking forward to it. I tell you what; I already like the title a lot.
ReplyDeleteTrudy it doesn't take alot of time to write a blog. As you can tell we all go in spurts. Sometimes if an idea hits me I will take notes on my writting program on my computer and then when I have time, make my notes into sentences.
DeleteSounds like more than it is, but it really is fun to post real life experiences and get feedback.
I love hearing peoples experiences and I learn so much. The best part is, I know I am not alone in this journey and the friendships I have made by meeting with the contributors is priceless!!
Sure thing Linda. I will do it that way, in spurts. As long as we get our message across. I too enjoy reading other peoples feedback of trials and tribulations. It is a tremendous help. I can’t get enough of it. Thank you for your encouragement and input. I always appreciate your thoughts.
DeleteHello Linda. Thanks for your vote of confidence. That’s so nice of you. I am not a contributor yet. I am missing something, but not sure how to go by. I will contact Theresa to help me get set up. Also, there are times when I am not able to commit a lot of time to write, etc., because of my schedule at work, which will start soon. But, like you, I get so much out of these blogs. It keeps me honest and there is a kind of kinship with all the members. I am definitely looking forward to see more blogs from you, Theresa, and all the other good folks. I am planning on reading your latest post about the ‘scale victory’ during my lunch hour. Looking forward to it. I tell you what; I already like the title a lot.
ReplyDeleteTrudy - it looks like you were successful this time! We welcome you as a new contributor. Send me an email if you have question or search for help with the blog help tool or on Google.
ReplyDeleteLinda is right, we write when we can and sometimes it's more frequent than other times.
I look forward to reading your posts!
Thank you so much. I am excited to be part of this wonderful group. You have always been so kind and helpful. I have a lot of catching up to do at work at the moment because we had Friday and Monday off due to the Snow etc. But, I'll be back just as soon as I can breath again. :) It's all good. Thanks again!
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