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How strong is your weight loss journey commitment? What tools do you use when you hear the wild calls of sugar, carbs, and other non-key foods? Yesterday I discovered a couple news tools to help me stay one hundred percent on my journey.

100% on key. Photo by Theresa

Before I got out of bed yesterday morning I made a decision to commit to be 100% on program all day. Throughout my day, as my mind reached for something off-program, I said one word to myself: 100%.

This one word reminded me of my commitment: today I will be 100% on program.

I said 100% many times yesterday. As the hours passed, I thought about keeping track of how many times I did this. I did not keep a record, but I did kept my promise.

At some point in the day, I found humor in the number of times I reminded myself 100%. I began to enjoy this humor. Smiling felt good. Sticking to my promise felt good too. Feeling good and keeping my promise became empowering. Feeling empowered is a great place to be.

This morning before getting out of bed, I repeated my commitment from yesterday. With these two new tools, a daily commitment to be 100% on program and a one-word reminder: 100%, I intend to make this promise every morning until it is once again my lifestyle.

Feeling empowered by the success from yesterday, I know that today, I've got this.

What about you? What tool(s) do you use to keep you on program? I'd love to hear what works for you to help you stay on your weight loss journey.

October 27, 2016

I've only blogged once a month since July, except for a handful of recipes. Posting healthy recipes doesn't inspire anyone to eat healthy, myself included. I've been quiet because things have been messy in my life and I didn't feel I could publicly share the messy side of my weight loss journey. Last week I changed my way of thinking about this.

Make your mess your message. Photo by Theresa

I was inspired by GMA's co-Anchor Robin Roberts when I heard her encourage people: Make your mess your message.

I accept that I'm going through a messy phase in my life, and, with Robin's encouragement, I appreciate that in sharing my messy life, specifically as it relates to obstacles and outcomes of my weight loss journey, in making my mess my message, perhaps this will help a few of you struggling on your journey.

Today's messy life story is short. I pulled these words from the privacy of my journal. This is intentionally sparse on details, deep into the heart of the situation, and quick to end. Spoiler alert: not all stories have happy endings.

The entire time I ran errands I was in a lot of pain. My sore left knee made getting in and out of the car difficult and painful. The skin treatment my dermatologist prescribed to burn off layers of per-cancerous skin was working. I know this because my nose, chest, and hands were itchy and burning. I felt embarrassed to be seen with such dry and red skin.

On my drive home, I felt proud that I had passed three ice cream stands after having several inner dialogues about stopping or not stopping. Yeah! I didn't stop. Yet suddenly, there I was buying a double scoop. When I grabbed napkins, I almost tossed the cup in the trash, but I didn't.

At home, I was aware that I actually did feel better as I ate my ice cream and in the minutes to follow. I wanted a reprieve from the pain and I got it.

For all of about 5 minutes. Then it was as if I'd had no reprieve at all. No amount of sugar or carbs will ever resolve my pain, my stress, my anxiety, or whatever is causing me to want those foods. This is hard to remember when I'm deep into the mess of things.

I accepted my decision: that I had gone off-program, that I had given in to the wild calls of sugar. Then I let it go. In the morning I began again. As I wrote recently: forgiveness is key.

This is the end of this short story, but it is not the end of my journey. There's so much more to my life than my weight loss journey. My life is a bit messy these days. While I'm not happy with this messy part of my journey/life, I'm not going to give up. I am going to reach my goal size.

Over a decade ago I took photos at a family gathering and when I reviewed them I came across a blurry photo. There was something beautiful in the blur of the colors and the scene that was mesmerizing. I printed a large size of this photo, framed it, and entered it in an art show. It was the first photo in my series I call Life is Sometimes a Blur.

This post is the first of my posts about my messy life.

It is my hope that some of you will share your stories of how you overcame life's obstacles while on this weight loss journey, how you got out of your own way and succeeded on your journey. I could use a good story about now and I'm sure I'm not alone.

October 25, 2016

Inspired by my recent lunch at Meatball Kitchen in Wibraham, MA, I was inspired to update my meatball repertoire. If you haven't been there, I encourage you put this on your short list of places to go for lunch or dinner. Perhaps call a key friend, as the menu is key-friendly. Avoid the mushroom gravy and Alfredo, as they have flour.

About six months ago a key friend told me he makes meatloaf and meatballs without breadcrumbs or Parmesan cheese. I followed his suggestion to eliminate them from my meatloaf and meatball recipes and I was surprise that I didn't notice a difference. I had not been to a refresher, but I had heard breadcrumbs were no longer allowed, which I found to be true at the refresher I went to earlier this month.

Before I share my new recipe, here's an update on breadcrumbs and cheese: both are no longer allowed during the weight loss phase.

Breadcrumbs: no longer allowed

Cheese: no longer allowed

Cottage cheese is still allowed and is treated like a vegetable - you must always eat it with with meat.

Are you really going to let cheese or breadcrumbs get between you and your goal size? You aren't giving them up forever, it's just during your weight loss phase. Once you reach your goal and learn maintenance, these items are once again an option.

Ingredients

1 pound ground beef (prime)
1 pound ground pork
1 pound ground veal
2 ounces chopped Italian parsley
2 eggs, beat in a bowl 3 ounces chopped garlic, sautéed until light brown in extra-virgin olive oil
Freshly ground salt and pepper
Extra-virgin olive oil

Directions

Grease a sheet pan.
In a large mixing bowl, mix veal, beef and pork until thoroughly integrated.
Use your hands; while wearing rubber gloves, do not mix with a machine of any type.
Add garlic, eggs, parsley, salt and pepper and mix until all ingredients are combined.
Form mixture into 2 to 2.5-ounce balls and place on sheet pan.
In a 12-inch sauté pan heated to medium, add 6 ounces extra-virgin olive oil.
When the oil is hot, fry each meatball until golden brown.
You will have to continually add olive oil as the meatballs absorb oil.
Always make sure olive oil is hot before adding meatballs to the pan.
When meatballs are golden brown on all sides, cook for one hour in your favorite tomato sauce!

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October 24, 2016

I've been silent for a while, as I worked things out since my mid-August refresher, and I'm ready to share my new perspective on dealing with sugar and carb cravings. When these cravings start up, I ride them out like a wave. After the waves cease, my craving calm down, and I continue my journey from a more grounded place.

Ride your cravings out like a wave and then continue your journey.

I went off-program in Dec. and I struggled to get back on track for months. When I realized I needed help, that I had gained weight and I couldn't get back on track on my own, I went to a refresher. The first month after my refresher I felt great, motivated and on the right path.

Then the sugar and carb cravings were hitting me and hard. I pushed back equally hard and
I won. I thought a lot about what goes on in my head. I looked at what happens when I choose to push back on sugar and carb cravings versus when I don't push back. I have a new perspective on my weight loss journey since my refresher.

Just Say No to Non-Key Foods

Every time I say yes, I teach my body that it can not trust me.
Every time I say yes, I want more and more sugar and carbs.

Every time I say no, I want sugar and carbs less and less.
Every time I say no, my body learns that it can trust me.

Each time I say no…it’s easier to say no tomorrow.
I choose to just say no to non-key foods.

Mix Thing Up in New Ways

I realized I was bored with my meals, both at home and at restaurants. I started changing that by trying new recipes. Hence the large number of recipes posted last week.

I found another way to switch things up. I usually only have one vegetable with my meat and one night I decided to have two small sides with my pulled pork: a side of corn and coleslaw. This was an easy change and something I plan to do more often.

Eat Smaller Portions

When I heated up my leftover pulled pork, I made my serving size smaller than usual. I intentionally gave myself a "normal" size portion instead of the supersize servings I've become accustomed to. This did not leave an easy option for me to go back for seconds. After dinner I wanted more, but I rode the wave and sure enough the hunger ceased. I'm retraining my brain that smaller portions are "enough." If I'm still hungry 30 minutes or more later, I'll eat more. The more I do this, the easier it becomes, because I have new memories of eating less and I'm satisfied with less.

Return to What I Know Works

I know this program works. It feels good to be back on track and eating cleaner. I'm back to the basics and aiming for as close to 100% as humanly possible.

I've resumed my daily walking goal of 10,000 steps. I know that using a Fitbit helps me meet my step goals, so last week I replaced my Fitbit, which died 6 weeks earlier. There were a few days I didn't reach my step goal. However, looking a this from a positive perspective: I walked a lot more than I have in months.

This kind of accountability works for me. Plus my new Fitbit Charge 2 has animated features like a rocket ship that takes off when I reach my daily goal and another feature that encourages me throughout the day by buzzing and asking questions like "wanna stroll?" It's a riot. I try to get up and walk when I get those messages, but I don't do it every time. Not yet at least.

Forgiveness is Key

After gaining weight this year, I felt ashamed and embarrassed. I knew feeling this way wasn't going to help me. I focused instead on a more positive thought: there was a time when I was happy to be this size, which is far smaller than I was five years ago.

I embraced the concept that this weight gain is simply a part of my journey. If weight loss was so easy, obesity would not exist.

I know that beating myself up for not being ON 100% is harmful. I know that even if don't meet my daily goals, I'm doing my best.

To be successful on this journey, I must forgive myself when I fall short and then let go.

Life After My Refresher

At my refresher, I learned this weight loss phase of the key program is meant to be a phase we go through until we reach our goal size, then we go through maintenance, and then we maintain our goal size. We only return to weight loss phase a few times a year if we find ourselves at the tighter end of our goal size clothes.

After my refresher, I felt resolved to sprint to the finish line and that no little sweet thing was going to get between me and my goal size. I still feel this resolve today.

What about you? How do you do to push back on food cravings? What do you do to keep yourself motivated to stay on course?

September 29, 2016

A new twist on making fajitas, this recipe, by Lou Mayo the one handed Chef, bakes the ingredients in the oven instead of frying.

Oven Baked Fajitas

Ingredients

1.5 pounds boneless (I used 4 Breasts) skinless chicken breasts, cut into strips
Olive Oil
2 tsp chili powder
1 1/2 tsp cumin
1/2 tsp garlic powder
1/2 tsp dried oregano
1/4 tsp seasoned salt
1 (15 oz) can diced tomatoes (not drained)
1 medium onion, sliced
1 red bell pepper, cut into strips
1 green bell pepper, cut into strips

Directions

Preheat the oven to 400 degrees.
Add a bit of Olive Oil to your baking dish and spread around with a paper towel.
Place chicken strips in the oiled baking dish.
In a small bowl combine the chili powder, cumin, garlic powder, dried oregano, salt and about 2-3 tbsp olive oil.
Drizzle the spice mixture over the chicken and stir to coat.
Next add the tomatoes, peppers, and onions to the dish and stir to combine.
Bake uncovered for 30-40 minutes or until chicken is cooked through and the vegetables are tender.

September 14, 2016

I'm on a roll with adding new recipes, as I'm in the "switching things up" mode! These Breakfast Cups, a recipe from key-friend Lou, offer a great way to make a few meals ahead.

Lou's Breakfast Cups

Place cooked breakfast sausage in the bottom and a little up the sides of muffin a tin.

Add any other ingredients you wish.

Breakfast sausage, diced peppers, eggs

Bake at 325 for 20-30 min.

Breakfast Cups

Scramble some eggs and pour in the cups covering everything. I also put a whole egg on 6 of the cups instead of the scrambled just to test it out and I like the scrambled much more.

September 14, 2016

Here's another great recipe from Lou: Lou's Awesome Meatloaf, which you'll notice does not contain cheese or breadcrumbs (no longer allowed during the weight loss phase of the program).

My version of Lou's Awesome Meatloaf

Update 09/16/16: I made this yummy recipe today and as I prepared this I took photos to add to this recipe. I made two minor changes: 1) I didn't have cumin so none was added to my batch, and 2) I used red peppers instead green.

Ingredients

2 tablespoons butter
2 finely chopped green onions
1 onion, chopped
1/2 green pepper, chopped
2 ribs chopped celery
6-8 garlic cloves, minced
1 1/2 teaspoons salt
1 teaspoon cumin
1 teaspoon fresh ground pepper
1/2 cup ketchup
2 1/2 lbs ground meat (I use 1 1/2 lbs beef and 1 lb pork)
3 large eggs (this is essential as it acts as the binder)
2 teaspoons Worcestershire sauce

Meatloaf ingredients

Directions

Melt the butter in medium skillet over medium/high heat.

Add the green onions, regular onions, green pepper, celery, and garlic and cook until softened.

Chop green onions, regular onions, red pepper, celery, and mince garlic

Add veggies to melted butter

Stir in salt, cumin, black pepper, and cook 1 minute.

Cook veggies 1 minute with salt, cumin, and pepper

Stir in ketchup simmer 2 minutes.

Simmer 2 more minutes after adding ketchup

Cool for a bit.

Heat your oven to 350 degrees.

Combine meat, eggs (lightly beaten) and Worcestershire in a large bowl.

Stir vegetable mixture into meat mixture until well blended (I just use my hands to mix it up).

Mix veggies into meat mixture with hands

Plop the mixture onto a sheet pan and free form into a loaf. I do it this way so it's not drowning in it's own grease.

Create a free form loaf with meat mixture

Bake for 70-90 minutes or until temperature of meat registers 160 degrees.

Cool, cut, plate and eat.

Meatloaf with side of coleslaw

September 14, 2016

Once again, our key-friends have dreamed up new ways to use cloud bread. Lou makes a key-friendly Ruben "sandwich" and in another recipe he makes a loaf of cloud bread and adds meatloaf between two slices. Another key friend uses cloud bread to make Cloud Fajitas. See recipe details below.

Cloud bread baked in a loaf pan

Cloud Bread Loaf

In this cloud bread loaf recipe, Lou added extra eggs and baked the cloud bread in a loaf pan, and the results: a nice loaf of cloud bread he could slice like regular bread and make sandwiches.

Follow the standard Cloud Bread recipe except for this recipe:

add 5 eggs (instead of 3 eggs)
pour the cloud bread into a loaf pan
bake it longer

Lou made this loaf of cloud bread and

Meatloaf Cloud Bread Sandwich

Cloud Bread RubenPlace you favorite Ruben ingredients between 2 slices of cloud bread.

Cloud Bread Ruben

Shrimp Cocktail Roll Up
Put a scoop of the cloud bread mixture on a warm dry frying pan and cooked it for a few then flipped it and squished it flat.