Exercise helps you to lose weight. Exercise is
good for your health. Blah, blah, blah. We know all this, but many of us struggle to start exercising or to continue with our exercise goals. What if you didn't need to decide every day
should I exercise, but instead you just do it because you made the commitment? What if you no longer had to debate with yourself every day about
doing it or not doing it? End the debate. It's exhausting and doesn't make you feel good, especially if you decide not to exercise. Make the decision once and then do it every day (or at whatever frequency you chose).
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| I could not walk this reservoir in a size 30/32. Today I walk here 4-5 days a week. |
I took this photo on my morning walk, which I get to do weekdays, yes at 6am, with my friend. When I was a size 30/32, this walk, that I loved, was something I had to give up because I couldn't walk the 4 miles around the reservoir. I couldn't even do part of this trail because of the steep hills at the entrances, because I was afraid of falling down, and because I could hardly breathe going uphill. When I added exercise to my life again, this was the first place I went to walk/run. At first, I couldn't cover the whole circle, but I kept at it and eventually I could. This was a big non-scale victory.
Robin had questions about exercise and how to get motivated to exercise:
It seems every one here is walking or working out. How do you do Zumba? I can't seem to get the steps to fast! How do you all do it? How do you get yourself moving? Motivated? Please help me!
You ask great questions and I'll respond to them, but first there are a couple observations I want to make and I have a couple of questions for you...
It sounds like you're in a panic about your weight loss journey, so I encourage you to:
- Stop right now and take a deep breath.
- Take a long breath in and slowly exhale.
- Repeat three more times.
Are you measuring your success with the success of others? I've been guilty of this from time to time and I know I'm not alone in thinking this way. This kind of thinking brings on self-doubt, which is not a good place to be, but here we are just the same.
The choice is ours: stay in self-doubt and allow those feelings to bring our weight loss journey to a halt or push past those feelings and continue our journey. We get to choose: move forward or move backwards, reach our goal and live our lives to the fullest or quit and live our lives wishing we could do this.
Part of the journey for many of us is to experience this self-doubt, to question why others are losing faster than we are, and to ask ourselves why we aren't losing as fast as others. When we're in this questioning stage, we're at a turning point on our journey, one which we may encounter many times along the way, when we stop and ask ourselves the question "why aren't I losing as fast as others?"
Behind the curtain, the real question we may be asking is "can I continue to do this?" or "should I continue?" or "is this sustainable?" Perhaps what's really going on inside is that we are having doubts about reaching our goal size. At this point, we're often close to another drop in size and if we can get beyond this point we will feel incredible when it passes and we're no longer questioning ourselves.
This is the point where we need to stay the course the most, to push away those feelings of self-doubt. This is the moment to reflect back on this same kind of moment when we didn't stay the course and how we regretted it later.
This is also the moment to also reflect on the moments like this that we pushed ourselves through the moment and how great it felt when we did.
Don't make this one of those moments of regret. Make this one of the many moments you can look back on with pride at how you pushed yourself through this moment. All these moments are what add up to your success and the propel you to goal size. Stay the course.
Weight loss is not the same for all of us, as there are many variables in each of our lives. Some start heavier than others. Some are older. Some have carried their extra weight for a longer time than others. The bottom line is that time doesn't matter. Do you best every day to stay the course and you will reach your goal. If someone told me it would take more than three years for me to reach my goal size, I don't know that I could have done this program. What I do know today, is that it doesn't matter how long it takes and that I feel good every day I choose to stay the course.
Motivation to exercise comes when you decide it's time for you to
get moving. I
remember at a refresher Julie told the woman sitting next to me "if you
don't exercise, it's going to take you a really long time to get to your
goal size." It was nine months later before I would take those words
seriously and started to exercise.
For me, exercise
first took shape when I
downloaded the couch-2-5k app. I was going to a conference and I
decided ahead of time I would use the treadmill each morning of the
conference. In fact, I was on my way to the airport and I had driven
about a mile away from my house when I realized I had not packed my
exercise clothes and I turned around to go get them. At the airport, I
told my co-worker I would be joining her in the gym each morning. I made
the decision and then took steps to see my commitment through. The
first morning of the conference, I went to the gym at 5am, I stepped on
the treadmill next to my co-worker, and I turned on the c25k app and did
my first workout.
I quickly realized I needed a goal
to keep me inspired, so after returning home I
registered for a 5k. There was just enough time for me to finish my c25k
training
before the race day. What helped me was that I solicited a friend to
train and to run the race with me, but there were many times that I had
to run by myself.
You asked about Zumba - Zumba
is a blast! However, every time I went I felt that everyone else was
doing so much better. I couldn't bend or move like they did. In other
words, I was judging myself and I was in my own way. Once I got out of
my own way, once I stopped comparing myself to everyone else in the
room, I was able to enjoy myself. I haven't been back to Zumba, but it's
not off the list of possibilities, it just doesn't fit into my
priorities at the moment.
Right now my focus is walking 10,000-15,000
steps a day and to train for a 5k race in Dec. I made the decision to do this race once and now I'm following through by taking the steps (training) to reach my goal. There is no debate on "should I" because I'm committed.
In the end, it is only you who can motivate yourself to see your
exercise goals through. Apps are helpful tools and having a walking or
running buddy is wonderful, but it is on each of us to do this for
ourselves, with our without friends or apps.
Make the decision what you want to do for exercise. Make the decision
once and then take action each day to stay the course. If you take on
too much, adjust the plan. This isn't failing, this is learning what's
possible for you right now. Adjust your plan as you need, but don't get
into the debate about exercising or not exercising. Choose once and then
stay the course.
Hmm, this is sort of like what we do
with this program right? We choose to follow this program and there's no
further debate. Take the debate out the equation for staying the course
on this program and with your exercise plan.
