Last week while visiting with Mary, my childhood friend who now lives in Long Beach, Mary showed me photos she had of me over the years, to help inspire me to see how far I've come on my weight loss journey...
In October 2002, we traveled together in Italy (Mary took this photo)
South Hadley, MA, September 2010 
With Long Beach Mary, July 2012
Decades ago I took a "health, mind, and body" workshop and over the course of six weeks I met with a  group of about 30 others three times a week for three hours. At each session a different speaker talked to us about  health related topics. We learned how to meditate to reduce stress. We learned about nutrition. We learned a lot during these 18 sessions. The really great part, for me, was what we learned about exercise.
Running is just one exercise option; find the type that you enjoy and just do it!
Photo by Theresa
One of the doctors told us "there is an exercise out there for everyone, you just need to find out what it is". To help prove his theory, every workshop began with a different form of exercise. With this group, I walked, jogged, played tennis, swam in a pool, learned a bit of yoga, and explored a  handful more forms of exercise.

Before I left for my vacation, I thought about all those workshops and I made a decision that this year I would explore more exercise options once again. While here in southern California on vacation this past week, I began the journey and I've have had a lot fun along the way. Last week I walked a mile and a half to the pool, swam 24 laps, and then walked a mile and a half back home again. I was home having breakfast by about 10 am and I still had a full day ahead of me - and tons of energy.  

Getting in and out of the pool was difficult, as I have no upper arm strength. My first day at the pool, I pushed myself to squat down and sit on the edge of the pool and pushed myself again to jump in. I've grown so stiff over the years, and all of these movements that used to be so natural to me years ago, easily could have stopped me from getting in the water.

In fact, I know this is why I've stayed out of the pool for the past decade. Oh, and wearing a bathing suit in public too. As I sat at the edge of the pool, I knew I was going to get into the pool and didn't let my hesitations stop me. Instead of sitting and debating if I could push off, I just bit down and jumped in. It wasn't pretty, but I was in! Getting out defied the laws of gravity, but I did that too. Swimming laps was exhausting and my arms burned, but I kept going back and forth until I couldn't swim another lap. Sore arms aside, it felt terrific to be in the water once again! 

If my arms weren't already feeling the pain after 3 days the pool, I went kayaking. My friend helped me sit in the kayak and later helped me get out. That was the hardest part and the part I was most fearful of--what if I couldn't get in -- or worse - what if I couldn't get out? I pushed beyond the fear and just did it. What a blast it was. My friend is a great teacher and taught me the ropes and I did not tip over, another fear - how would I get back in if I tipped over? I didn't need to answer that question!

I have been a couch potato for the past fifteen years, but I wasn't always a couch potato. It's been great getting exercise by moving my body in new ways and having a blast. It took me 9 months of being on this program before I started exercise, but I want to encourage you not to wait that long.

For those of you who haven't been ready to start exercise, I encourage you to create a list of all the different types of physical activities you can think of and start trying them one by one until you find a form of exercise that fits you. If you feel too out of shape to begin, consider walking five minutes from your house and then five minutes back, then slowly increase your walking time, even if it's just a minute more a week. Take it slow, but start moving. It may not be walking for you, but find something you can do and start doing it.
Sitting at Starbucks in Carlsbad, CA, where I could hear waves crashing against the rocks, if only the music wasn't so loud. It's an overcast day, but I'm on vacation and a few clouds won't spoil my mood.

When I first sat down, a man next to me was quite chatty and friendly. He told me he's "never been this weight before" and I wasn't sure if he meant he had gained or list weight. Then he told me about a cool phone app that he uses. You speak into the phone, for example he said "Starbucks chicken salad" and it tracks your meal. "It's really easy," he said. "I've lost 30 pounds and it was effortless!" He then saw his wife, got up and they left.

There was no time to tell him I've dropped close to a hundred pounds.

This was a good reminder for me, that as excited as I am about my weight loss journey, not everyone wants to know how I got here. Even if they need to lose weight.

Thanks for Sharing Dude.

Anyone else experience this type of "kindness" from strangers?


Someone on Julie's guest book page posted a link to this article. Quite interestinG!!


I also posted this on the Face book page and someone that belongs to that group knows the doctor involved in this, so this makes it even more real to me!


This was published in the Sunday review paper in the opinions page...

What Really Makes Us Fat



By GARY TAUBES

Published: June 30, 2012


A CALORIE is a calorie. This truism has been the foundation of nutritional wisdom and our beliefs about obesity since the 1960s.


What it means is that a calorie of protein will generate the same energy when metabolized in a living organism as a calorie of fat or carbohydrate. When talking about obesity or why we get fat, evoking the phrase “a calorie is a calorie” is almost invariably used to imply that what we eat is relatively unimportant. We get fat because we take in more calories than we expend; we get lean if we do the opposite. Anyone who tells you otherwise, by this logic, is trying to sell you something.


But not everyone buys this calorie argument, and the dispute erupted in full force again last week. The Journal of the American Medical Association published the results of a clinical trial by Dr. David Ludwig of Boston Children’s Hospital and his collaborators. While the media tended to treat the study as another diet trial — what should we eat to maintain weight loss? — it spoke to a far more fundamental issue: What actually causes obesity? Why do we get fat in the first place? Too many calories? Or something else?


The calorie-is-a-calorie notion dates to 1878, when the great German nutritionist Max Rubner established what he called the isodynamic law.


It was applied to obesity in the early 1900s by another German — Carl Von Noorden, who was of two minds on the subject. One of his theories suggested that common obesity was all about calories in minus calories out; another, that it was about how the body partitions those calories, either for energy or into storage.


This has been the core of the controversy ever since, and it’s never gone away. If obesity is a fuel-partitioning problem — a fat-storage defect — then the trigger becomes not the quantity of food available but the quality. Now carbohydrates in the diet become the prime suspects, especially refined and easily digestible carbohydrates (foods that have what’s called a high glycemic index) and sugars.


UNTIL the 1960s, carbohydrates were indeed considered a likely suspect in obesity: “Every woman knows that carbohydrate is fattening,” as two British dietitians began a 1963 British Journal of Nutrition article.


The obvious mechanism: carbohydrates stimulate secretion of the hormone insulin, which works, among other things, to store fat in our fat cells. At the time, though, the conventional wisdom was beginning its shift: obesity was becoming an energy issue.


Carbohydrates, with less than half the calories per gram as fat, were beginning their official transformation into heart-healthy diet foods. One reason we’ve been told since to eat low-fat, carbohydrate-rich diets is this expectation that they’ll keep us thin.


What was done by Dr. Ludwig’s team has never been done before. First they took obese subjects and effectively semi-starved them until they’d lost 10 to 15 percent of their weight.

Such weight-reduced subjects are particularly susceptible to gaining the weight back. Their energy expenditure drops precipitously and they burn fewer calories than people who naturally weigh the same. This means they have to continually fight their hunger just to maintain their weight loss. The belief is that weight loss causes “metabolic adaptations,” which make it almost inevitable that the weight will return. Dr. Ludwig’s team then measured how many calories these weight-reduced subjects expended daily, and that’s how many they fed them. But now the subjects were rotated through three very different diets, one month for each. They ate the same amount of calories on all three, equal to what they were expending after their weight loss, but the nutrient composition of the diets was very different.


The results were remarkable. Put most simply, the fewer carbohydrates consumed, the more energy these weight-reduced people expended. On the very low-carbohydrate Atkins diet, there was virtually no metabolic adaptation to the weight loss. These subjects expended, on average, only 100 fewer calories a day than they did at their full weights. Eight of the 21 subjects expended more than they did at their full weights — the opposite of the predicted metabolic compensation.


On the very low-carbohydrate diet, Dr. Ludwig’s subjects expended 300 more calories a day than they did on the low-fat diet and 150 calories more than on the low-glycemic-index diet. As Dr. Ludwig explained, when the subjects were eating low-fat diets, they’d have to add an hour of moderate-intensity physical activity each day to expend as much energy as they would effortlessly on the very-low-carb diet. And this while consuming the same amount of calories. If the physical activity made them hungrier — a likely assumption — maintaining weight on the low-fat, high-carb diet would be even harder. Why does this speak to the very cause of obesity? One way to think about this is to consider weight-reduced subjects as “pre-obese.” They’re almost assuredly going to get fatter, and so they can be research stand-ins — perhaps the best we have — for those of us who are merely predisposed to get fat but haven’t done so yet and might take a few years or decades longer to do it.

If we think of Dr. Ludwig’s subjects as pre-obese, then the study tells us that the nutrient composition of the diet can trigger the predisposition to get fat, independent of the calories consumed. The fewer carbohydrates we eat, the more easily we remain lean. The more carbohydrates, the more difficult. In other words, carbohydrates are fattening, and obesity is a fat-storage defect. What matters, then, is the quantity and quality of carbohydrates we consume and their effect on insulin.


From this perspective, the trial suggests that among the bad decisions we can make to maintain our weight is exactly what the government and medical organizations like the American Heart Association have been telling us to do: eat low-fat, carbohydrate-rich diets, even if those diets include whole grains and fruits and vegetables.


A controversial conclusion? Absolutely, and Dr. Ludwig’s results are by no means ironclad. The diets should be fed for far longer than one month, something he hopes to do in a follow-up study. As in any science, these experiments should be replicated by independent investigators. We’ve been arguing about this for over a century. Let’s put it to rest with more good science. The public health implications are enormous.


Gary Taubes is The author of “Why We Get Fat.”

















































OK, OK, I went and asked Julie about exercise and now I have to 'pay the piper' as the saying goes.

Exercise is calling my name.

OK, so now what do I do?

I have actually been having fun in our pool with it. We have an in ground pool (trust me, nothing fancy) and have an incline from the deep to shallow end. I stand on that incline so my shoulders are underwater and jog. I lift my legs high and use my arms underwater to keep my balance. I get a work out. and its fun AND I don't sweat!

I do jumping jacks in that same spot. I don't lift my arms out of the water, I keep them under and use them to keep my balance. I keep my hands cupped to add more resistance.

I then get in a tube and YES I FIT IN A TUBE!!!! and I bicycle around the pool many times.

When done with that I go to the middle of the deep end and do stomach crunches. Try it. Hold feet together and keep legs straight and bring them up but not out of water and then down.

Then while in tube, start turning circles using hips and legs to propel you around in circles. Then go the other way.

It is fun and this kind of stuff can be done numerous times during the day and it truly does not feel like I am exercising.

What kinds of things do you do? I don't mean gyms, I don't want to join one. I know walking is good, but I am looking for ideas or ways to get in some exercise in, out of the ordinary, fun ways, just around the house. I have an aunt who used to wash dishes and do knee bends while doing them. Stuff like that.
I saw this recipe on Facebook and I want to remember to try this when I return from my vacation, so I'm posting it here. There are more recipes there you may want to check out.

Cook 4 pork chops in a pan with butter.

When cooked, remove from pan.

In the same pan put 1 cup heavy cream and a container of blue cheese. Simmer till it thickens and serve over pork chops.

DELICIOUS!

I made it with acorn squash.

Very tasty!
This comment was posted by Deb:

I have seen Julie Ann Kibe 2 sessions now the program has been easy. I would love to here different meals people eat. I am hoping recipes would help with the same old meat meal sausage, burger, hot dogs,steak pork. I just think there must different ways to cook them I would appreciate any suggestions.
Deb


Many of us have shared recipes on this blog, so I will point to the "recipes" link at the top of this page, where there's a list of links to recipes posted on this blog. I will update the list, as there are new recipes I haven't linked to yet. I can't promise to do this while I'm on vacation, but I will do this as soon as I can.

Meanwhile, anyone willing to share recipes, please add more when you get a chance.
Went to my refresher Tuesday and LOVED it! I love her new format on just having the ones that are still following the plan talk. Then asking questions to everyone else. A much more positive approach and encouraging, not so sabotaging to others.
I decided after reading some of the posts on here and on her guest book web page and listening in the refresher on writing this post. In other words, her program works just the way she tells us it does. WHY in the world would you go to the classes, spend all that time and money, and then monkey with her program? If we just do what she tell us to do, it will work!

Meat and vegetables, no potatoes, nothing sweet, treat condiments like condiments, if you are hungry eat. If you are not hungry - don‘t eat. Simple. Basic. Not to many rules-easy!

As my friend Richard Simmons has told me so many times over and over again, "Just do it!"
Richard Simmons and me
This photo was taken 4 years ago, the last time we were able to get together. Phone calls and emails suffice for now. And yes, I know he is a kook! He is the other man in my life! LOL! I love what he does for people-but that is a whole other blog post, now he is working with me to exercise!

Don't think about what you can't have. Just enjoy all the food you can have. All the food that I personally have deprived myself of for years on low calorie, low fat, fat free 'diets', I really enjoy eating now. And if I listen to my body, for the first time in my life, I do know when I am full.

Out of a class of 28 there were 4 or 5 of us still going strong on program. Julie explained about stress and our bodies and how, if you eat sugar willingly, no matter how little or how much, there will be consequences.

Stay away from sugar. I repeat: stay away from sugar. Why mess with something that is proven to work?

I searched for years for a simple, easy ‘diet’ where I could eat and not starve and enjoy food and still loose weight. Guess what? I found it! To good to be true? NO WAY! It is true and we are not starving, we are not deprived. Just do it and get it done. Then do maintenance right and you have won the war! She also explained if we do maintenance right, we will have long term success. If not............

I apologize if I ruffled any feathers with this post. I know we are all different. I know somethings work better for one and not the other. But I also know, from my own experiences, that our minds can justify a lot of stuff.

Please don't give in to a sugar/carb craving. Even if stress is hitting you from all angles. Have that meat ready and waiting. Be prepared. Life is full of stress. We can not get away from it. Some of us have more than others, believe me, I personally know! But don't let your mind justify it. I wish I could remember word for word her talk about stress and how it works on the body and the mind. Stress is a way of life and if we don't learn how to handle it now, by not giving into the sugar/carb, we will remain on this weight roller coaster and won't be able to get off!!

Use this when tempted: I don't wanna want it!

Tap it away - I picture Julie's hand circling around her and as it gets to close she taps it away.

Or I remember Julie's 'mommy voice' as she points to each one of us: "DON'T DO IT!"